Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Year-End Survey 2025

Here's my year-end survey for 2025!

1. What did you do in 2025 that you'd never done before?

  • Read lines for voice-over projects.
  • Participated in table reads for voice-over projects.
  • Got my first manicure.
  • Sang at gay karaoke.

  • Got a dental guard.
  • Submitted short stories for reprints.
  • Saw a concert at the Fillmore.

  • Wrote an introduction for someone else's book.
  • Stayed at my sister's house in San Francisco.

  • Called a Senator.
  • Called a Representative.
  • Got to hear my first audio projects get released that I did voices in.
  • Went to Lake City for interviews at work.

  • Participated in a presentation at work.
  • Went to a professional audition for voice-over work.
  • Went to the Castro.

2. Did you keep your new year's resolutions, and will you make more for next year?

Last year, these were my resolutions, and whether I kept them:
  1. Health Goals:

    1. WEIGHT: I had no specific weight goal--just wanted to keep my eye on it to see if there were any symptoms of thyroid-related gains, and otherwise just wanted to avoid having to buy new clothes. Result: I monitored for most of the year (with some short stretches of not checking in with the scale), and nothing has changed drastically. I am happy with my weight.

    2. DRINKING WATER: I decided to shoot for at least four glasses a day and began tracking on an app. Result: This was a success. I only missed my four-glasses goal 8 times out of the entire year (and all of those times it was 3 glasses, falling short of 4). My alternating-between-beverages schedule works out very well and it tends to only fall short if I get tired early and fall asleep in the evening before I've had my last glass.

    3. NUTRITION: I aimed for three servings of fruit and veggies, with one of the veggies being a green veggie, and consistent taking of vitamins. Result: I regularly made my goal, but there were 30 days this year that I did not get in that last serving. It was intermittent, and generally again just because I went to bed before having a nighttime snacky fruit or something. I added B vitamins into the mix late in the year.

    4. EXERCISE: I resolved to walk at least 10,000 steps a day and do another non-walking aerobic activity once a week. Result: I consider this goal met, but there were two days (out of the whole year!) when I didn't make the goal. Literally both of them were less than 500 steps from the goal--I just didn't notice until it was too late. One was May 19 at 9,625 steps and the other was August 21 at 9,820 steps. I regularly overshot the goal by a LOT. I ended up doing aerobics (either DDR or a walking-with-weights fitness video) every other day for the entire year, so I think I more than met the goal.

    5. HEALTH PROFESSIONALS: I planned to make and keep health appointments. Result: Complete. I did routine bloodwork, routine physical, mammogram, dermatology, and a cleaning at the dentist. Unfortunately also had some visits about my ear being weird and my foot being weird, and had to have my toenail taken off again. Ugh.

  2. Personal Project and Professional Goals: I was unsure whether more structure or less structure would help here. I decided to try MORE structure. This is what shook out.

    1. WRITING STUFF. Goal was to finish two novels and one short story in 2025 by writing new content on Saturdays, Mondays, and Tuesdays, with editing active projects also counting as writing. And I would do query submissions and short story submissions on Wednesdays and Thursdays. Result: I finished one novel and no short stories. The editing was harder than I expected because of the extreme length, but I should have seen that coming. I've just completed the novel's third edit, but it needs to be just a little shorter. I did not find new representation for my older novels this year. I did sell one short story. I'm disappointed it wasn't more, but I'm glad there was one success.

    2. WEBSITE STUFF. Photo Project: Intention was to scan the rest of my photos from physical albums, go through the boxes in the closet and scan/sort those, put loose photos in albums or boxes, and post and tag the photos on my website. Result: All photos scanned, sorted, and albumed. The posting and tagging process is close to complete, but I have a little ways to go. Currently stuck in the year 2001 going backwards, but everything's sorted and I just have to do it.

      Autobio Website:
      Intention was to revamp and update the autobiographical part of my website from where I left off in 2006. Result: I was not able to start this in earnest, but some aspects of this document were updated along with my photo sorting as I was doing it.

      Essays and Rants:
      Intention was to organize various writings of various sorts with a more organized tagging system, gathering from all the places I've posted content over the years, like LiveJournal, my Twitter posts, and my Tumblr posts. Result: I have gathered a small amount of this material from Facebook. Nothing else has been done on this.

      Steven Universe Fansite:
      Intention was to collect my merchandise collection photos, recipes, and other fan content I've made into one place. Result: The placeholder website has been reserved, but I have not done the content at all. To be fair, I'm doing website stuff in order and the FIRST of these projects isn't done yet, so of course the projects after it on the list aren't done.

    3. MUSIC STUFF. Intention was to learn/re-learn all the Steven Universe songs on ukulele in the first half of the year so I could play them at the summer convention. Result: I completed this. I learned all the songs. And then proceeded to not practice anymore after meeting the goal, so I've probably forgotten many of them.

    4. REGULAR CONTENT. Intention was to continue posting the Negative One webcomic every week and the So You Write webcomic every month, a new asexuality video every month, and Not-So-Giant Women with Daria based on her availability. Result: Complete success on this with regard to webcomics and videos. Daria, however, has disappeared and has not spoken to me or answered a message for the entirety of this year, so I have no idea what her intentions are with our project.

    5. VOICE ACTING. Intention was to take this new goal and "hopefully get a few more roles." Result: At the very end of last year I got a wild hair to start trying out for stuff and was awarded the first role I tried out for. So I decided to pursue it more diligently and now at the end of 2025 I have been cast in ten more roles (eight of which I auditioned for; two of which were given to me as additional roles by directors I was already working with). This has honestly gone better than I expected!

  3. Reading Goals: I did not have a specific number of books in mind to read, but I resolved to try to read twice a week and combine it with exercise, and continue documenting my reviews. Result: I did not read anywhere near twice a week and did so inconsistently. I was content to let this goal slide because I prioritized other goals, but it was still disappointing. I only read six books this year.

  4. Relationship and Communication Goals:

    1. DOCUMENTATION: I resolved to do better about documenting everyday life in the reflections I miss having. Result: Bullshit, frankly. I didn't do it at all. I still want to.

    2. COMMUNICATION: I resolved to answer e-mails promptly and put more content on social media. Result: E-mail went really well! I didn't leave communication unanswered very often, with a few stretches of not replying to OKCupid messages as fast as I meant to. But I did not succeed in posting on social media like I wanted to.

    3. SOCIAL LIFE: I resolved to be present with family and friends and make time for them, within reason balancing against my creative goals. This includes regular weekly game night with my friends and hangouts with Jeaux. Result: I did okay here. I did pull back on spending time and energy trying to engage with friends who weren't matching my investment in the friendship, and if things change in the future, I will change too. I hope my family and friends felt valued with the amount of attention and time I gave them.

  5. Other Goals:

    1. Sell or donate some of the extra things in my garage: I made some headway here! But not all of it is done.

    2. Paint that damn pillar I've been putting off painting: I did it!

    3. Keep my house clean (I do a good job with this): I did it!

    4. Try to watch those silly TV shows I have been talking about watching: I still have one hanging out to watch.

    5. Don't bite my nails: Kind of? I can't bite my nails the way I used to because I broke a tooth and had it repaired. For a while I stopped and let them grow but I didn't like having long nails. So now I have been kind of intentionally biting them a different way? It's weird.

FOR 2026, HERE ARE MY RESOLUTIONS:

  1. Health Goals: Going to continue the trend to make similar goals for next year.

    1. WEIGHT: Just maintenance as a goal. I have some numbers I'd like to aim for and some numbers I don't want to exceed, but until or unless a doctor says something, I don't want to focus on this. I will stop sharing specific numbers about this in 2026, but may vaguely refer to it here and there.

    2. DRINKING WATER: Four glasses a day as a minimum. Last year I was almost completely successful, but I wonder if I can get a perfect score in 2026? I will try to get this done earlier in the day than I did in 2025.

    3. NUTRITION: Three servings of fruit and veggies is the goal, with one of the veggies being a green veggie, and will try to use my tracking to balance nutrients better--primarily focusing on whether I get enough protein. I'll try to knock out the fruit and veggie servings earlier in the day to avoid flopping on this too. Currently I am taking rather a lot of vitamins: D3, red yeast rice, CoQ-10, biotin, B vitamins, and a multivitamin. I will keep this up in 2026.

    4. EXERCISE: I will continue to walk at least 10,000 steps a day (tracked with the app on my phone). I am now using a FitBit that prompts me to move at regular intervals and that is pretty nice. I don't think I need to change my habits for this because I met the goal every day except for two accidental days when I had over 9,000 but not quite 10,000. That's so picky. I will also continue to do additional aerobic activity every other day as I've liked how that worked out.
    5. HEALTH PROFESSIONALS: I plan to make and keep appointments to do the important screenings for bloodwork, physical, mammograms, dermatology, and a cleaning at the dentist once a year.

  2. Personal Project and Professional Goals: Last year's query about whether more structure or less structure was best ended up falling to "more structure" as an answer, and I was happy with it, so I will continue. I had developed a Projects Calendar, and though I always completed the goals on it, I didn't always do them on the exact day they were "assigned," and I think that's okay. I do have a tendency to get blocked in and fixated on meeting goals instead of letting myself slide on them ever, which causes a little stress, but sometimes mild stress is okay as a motivator as long as it's not truly disruptive. I think I would like to assign these goals a little more ahead of time--like maybe block out the month instead of the week--and maybe I'll get more of this stuff done if I develop patterns similar to the ones that worked so well this year.

    1. WRITING STUFF.

      • The goal: First, complete editing on In Bloom. Get it short enough to share with my test audience. Gather my test audience and provide the samples. Collect and incorporate feedback. Develop pitch materials. And start querying it. This year.

      • Once the book is out the door on its quest for representation, I will avoid spinning my wheels by picking up where I left off on my other in-progress novel, Ace of Arts.

      • The novel work--whatever part of it I happen to be on at the time this year--will happen on Saturdays, Mondays, and Tuesdays, as that worked out great for 2025.

      • I will also have a soft goal of writing at least two more short stories this year. I need more queer fantasy/science fiction stories to send out, as I've sold all of mine (this is a good problem to have). Sending out short stories to anthologies and magazines is a goal for Thursdays.

      • I will expand my efforts to find representation for older projects until the latest book is ready to query and then I'll focus on that. I have three novels I could query and I've only been doing one of them. I think I could do more. The querying is assigned to Wednesdays.

    2. WEBSITE STUFF.

      • Photo Project: All I need to do is get the photos organized and tagged from 2001 and earlier; nearly all of the hard work was complete with 2025's goals. I'm doing this with the assistance of journal entries and timelines. This is first, but it will be done soon. I will hit this on various days through the week until it's done. When it's done, the next projects below will jump into those time slots on my project calendar.

      • Steven Universe Fansite: I'm moving this up in the hierarchy. I'm going to start photographing collections and organizing them on the website that has a placeholder right now. Then I'll do recipes. Then book and comic reviews. Then reflections and analysis I've written elsewhere. Then interview and podcast highlights I've developed elsewhere. And finally, personal content like song covers, cosplay photos, and art and fan comics.

      • Autobio Website: No one cares about this but me, haha, but I still plan to do it. It's in line after the fansite is done. I'll reconstruct the important bits from a timeline I've kept up to date since 2006, and then I'll beef them up with details from my journals.

      • Essays and Rants Site: I want to create a tagged, organized, somewhat comprehensive collection of writings in blog format. There will be a lot of cutting and pasting, and I want to collect some content from my old LiveJournal, my Twitter posts, and my Tumblr posts. I'd like to have my short stories, long fiction, and writings from my youth somewhere on the site too, but I haven't decided yet whether I want to keep creative writing on a separate page or just have one big one.

    3. MUSIC STUFF. I will not have any specific goals for music this year besides learning new songs with my band and performing when we have gigs. I may pick up my ukulele here and there to stay in practice but I don't want to focus on this this year.

    4. REGULAR CONTENT. I resolve to continue posting a new Negative One webcomic every week and a new So You Write webcomic every month. I'll post a new asexuality video every month. If Daria ever resurfaces I'll try to get back to Not-So-Giant Women but I'm not holding my breath--I miss her, but I trust her that she's doing what she needs to do.

    5. VOICE ACTING. This will be tricky. This year I've been more successful than I expected getting cast in amateur productions, so next year I'd like to make it a goal to collect enough performances that have actually been released for me to develop a reel. If that happens (it's a little out of my control), I will see if I can work with a friend to create at least one professional reel and join one of the more professional casting call sites so I can access professional auditions. (A lot of serious productions don't put them out publicly, though some do and I've been replying to them.) Beyond that, I'll continue to audition for productions as I see them, but this will not be on a specific schedule. However, as I get cast in shows that have deadlines, those will of course go on my project calendar.

  3. Reading Goals: I can't help but feel disappointed at how little I've been reading the past few years, even though it's hard to find time amidst all these other creative goals I've obviously got (and let's not forget a full-time job). So this year, I'm gonna take a crack at reading one chapter or section of the book I'm on on alternating days when I don't have exercise on the calendar. It doesn't take very long and I really think writers should read, so I need to put my money where my mouth is on that. Goal set!

  4. Relationship and Communication Goals:

    1. DOCUMENTATION: I'm mad at myself for my failures on this in recent years. This is what I'm gonna do. My main outlet for all my ranting and reflection for the recent past has been my best friend. I just rant to her on Marco Polo. So if I have something I really wanna tell her, I'm gonna try writing it up first! Wanting to tell her about things will motivate me to do that first so I can tell her. I also have some backlog to get through of work stuff I really wanted to rant about, and I think I have literally like nine months' worth, but it was sporadic. I'll get it out in a Very Special Episode perhaps. I will begin doing this immediately along with my new regimen of rantage.

    2. COMMUNICATION: I've done well with e-mail communication and social media comments. I'll keep doing what I'm doing. I'd still like to post more frequently--perhaps to share photos or short thoughts--on places like Instagram, Bluesky, and Threads, and put things on my Tumblr blog. This will be a bit of a lifestyle change, but I used to do it all the time. I just don't anymore. I want to again. I may use photos and news as a motivator for this. I'm not looking for followers with this. Just want to put nice stuff out there for people to enjoy as well as keep people in my life informed on what's going on.

    3. SOCIAL LIFE: Jeaux Day, game night, and band practices will continue. We have a huge hangout planned for Meg's 50th birthday in January. And my 2026 will be enhanced by the nearby presence of two dear old friends: Kari has just moved into my neighborhood, so I anticipate many hangouts with her, and Meghan has sold her house and will be moving much closer, so I want to incorporate regular hangouts with her into my life. I can't wait.

  5. Other Goals:

    1. Sell or donate the rest of the items my garage left over from Mom's house and Meghan's collectibles. I will increase my efforts to get them placed with buyers/takers by using multiple platforms.

    2. Keep my house clean (I do a good job with this).

    3. Watch the TV show Dead End: Paranormal Park and finish watching the anime Secrets of the Silent Witch.

    4. Plant some herbs and take care of them.

    5. Wear pajamas. I'm prone to going to bed in my day clothes and it seems like a shame since a) I own some great pajamas and b) they're more comfortable. I resolve to wear pajamas to bed in 2026.

    6. Use a new coffee cup every day. I'm prone to reusing the same coffee cup for a long time (alternating between coffee and water) and it's always so nice when I change to a new cup, so I think I should incorporate this simple pleasure into my daily life even though it will involve more hand-washing of coffee cups.

    7. Do something cool with my hair. Yep, I'm thinking of a drastic change that involves pink hair dye. Stay tuned.
I THINK THAT IS ENOUGH ABOUT RESOLUTIONS. DON'T YOU? ON TO THE REST OF THE SURVEY.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

No one close to me, but Jeaux's family has another new baby: little Elena. Cute!

4. Did anyone close to you die?

I'm heartbroken to say we lost Pirate Mike this year--I don't have the specific details, but it must have been complications from liver disease. He was a treasure at my Halloween parties, an awesome ace friend, and a connector of people. Everyone knew him. I couldn't believe he was in my living room in October and he was gone just a month later. He leaves a void in this world.

My sister's family also encountered tragedy. Her close family friend Chuck passed away from a sneaky cancer he'd been fighting a long time. Things were looking so good for a while and then it just wasn't. I never got to meet Chuck but my sister spoke so highly of him and his family, and when I was in San Francisco I did briefly get to meet his wife and child (who are also friends with my sister's family). And of course, poor Yoshi. In December of this year my sister's family (the same sister!) lost their first and only family dog. Yoshi had lifelong digestive issues that were undiagnosed and they tried everything to make him more comfortable. When nothing worked they followed recommendations to do more diagnostic procedures and he had a complication coming out of his sedation, unexpectedly passing away during the routine procedure. He will be missed so much.

5. What countries did you visit?

I did not leave the USA this year.

6. What would you like to have in 2026 that you lacked in 2025?

  • More diligence, organization, and success on my projects.
  • Less stress about politics (I am not going to receive this).
  • Quieter neighbors. (I am also not going to receive this.)
  • A chance to book a real professional voice acting role.
  • An answer to some health issues (with my ear and my foot).
  • Short story sales.
  • As always, a book deal.

7. What dates from 2025 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

  • April 23: Finished writing the first draft of my novel In Bloom.
  • May 8 - May 14: Visited my sister Patricia in San Francisco.
  • July 25 & 26: Attended Metrocon.
  • August 7 - August 17: Vacationed with family in Ledo Key.

  • September 17: Went to a Night Vale show with Jeaux.

  • September 25: Went to a Weird Al concert with Jeaux, Meg, and Adam.

  • September 26: Received a new offer to publish my short story "Aquarius."
  • September 28: First band practice with a new band.
  • October 20: Interviewed for Ace Week on I Don't Know If This Counts: Asexuality 201.
  • October 25: Threw a Halloween party.
  • October 30: Interviewed for October Aces on I Don't Know If This Counts: Asexuality 201.
  • November 30: Found out Michael passed away.
  • December 27: Had family and friends over for holiday lunch and cookies.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

Unexpectedly getting into voice acting! Getting 10 new roles is not too shabby, even though they're for amateur projects.

9. What was your biggest failure?

I'm pretty disappointed that I didn't find new representation for my work this year even though I was pretty diligent about trying.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?

I had zero illnesses! I have a frustrating issue with pain in my foot that has not been diagnosed despite examination and X-rays, and I've been referred to physical therapy for it but I do not know if that is appropriate. And I have had a problem with a weird noise in my ear (which might be connected to a tight muscle in my shoulder?) that has been intermittent, but has as of now not recurred for a while. I have an appointment in the new year to get it looked at by a specialist.

11. What was the best thing you bought?

For items: Steven Universe glittery sneakers!! And a wind screen for my mic--man that's making voice acting so much better!

For experiences: Metrocon tickets, tickets to San Francisco, Weird Al tickets, Night Vale tickets.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?

  • Civil liberty fighters and queer rights activists.
  • So proud of Meggie for selling her house, Katelyn for moving out to her first place, and Benny for starting college.
  • So excited for Jeaux going back to school and acing his classes.
  • Ronni for enduring and emerging.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

The usual list:
  • Donald Trump, Ron DeSantis, Elon Musk, J.D. Vance, and their supporters.
  • Warmongers, torturers, and kidnappers participating in these terrible wars.
  • Bigots who keep trying to demonize immigrants and make truth-telling media the enemy of the people.
  • People who spread lies and conspiracy theories (many of which have their roots in racism, sexism, queerphobia, and antisemitism).
  • All the bastards who have been feeding the fire on "trans women are men who want access to single-sex spaces to do harm to REAL women" and "LGBTQ+ people are groomers."
  • Fake friends.
  • Selfish neighbors.
  • Those annoying-ass author scammers who keep sending AI-generated "offers" pretending to be interested in featuring or promoting authors' books when they are actually just full of shit.
  • People who use tragedy to capitalize.
  • Every single fatphobe.
  • People who blamed oppressed people for their own oppression.
  • Gaslighting bastards who hurt my people.
  • People who expect me and others to clean up the messes they made.

14. Where did most of your money go?

Steven Universe merch, flying to California, everyday expenses (including groceries, damn!), and helping people.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?

  • Lars of the Stars, the Steven Universe spinoff, being announced.
  • Every time I got cast in a new show for voice acting.

  • My backyard pineapple.

  • Getting better at some belting techniques that used to elude me.
  • Metrocon, and attending in my Cotton Candy Garnet cosplay with my ukulele.

  • Halloween.
  • Birds.
  • DDR pad upgrade.
  • Kari moving to town.
  • Receiving the Japanese-exclusive Steven Universe merch from my sister.
  • EPIC the musical.
  • Jeaux's success going back to college.
  • The Weird Al concert.
  • Building a new voice acting site.

16. What song will always remind you of 2025?

"Golden" from KPop Demon Hunters.

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:

  • i. happier or sadder? I will have to say sadder.
  • ii. thinner or fatter? Fatter, woohoooo.
  • iii. richer or poorer? Definitely poorer.

18. What do you wish you'd done more of?

Documenting the things I want to document and sharing them how I want to share them.

19. What do you wish you'd done less of?

Watching shitty reels or reading shitty stories that aren't really entertaining or high quality.

20. How did you spend Christmas?

On Christmas Day I was cleaning my office room and listening to silly Christmas carols sung by my friend, then making cookies, doing some exercise, and submitting queries and stories online. It was a busy but nice day spent alone. I had family and friends over for our holiday dinner a couple days later.

21. How will you be spending New Year's Eve?

Jeaux and I will hang out. Maybe we'll watch TV, eat dumb stuff, and see if we can catch fireworks in the neighborhood.

22. Did you fall in love in 2025?

This is not a thing.

23. How many one-night stands?

I should probably just delete this question from the survey. But then I'd have to re-number and ew.

24. What was your favorite TV program?

Steven Universe is still my undisputed favorite, but this year I saw the following new seasons or new series: The Elephant special, Murderbot, Knights of Guinevere pilot, Fionna & Cake Season 2, and Secrets of the Silent Witch. Weirdly, I also saw my very first episode of Seinfeld at Jeaux's insistence, and did not care for it. My favorite of these was probably Fionna & Cake.

25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?

Yeah man. These dudes really need to stop messing with my girls.

26. What was the best book you read this year?

I Wish You All the Best by Mason Deaver. I didn't have much to pick from because I only read six books this year, but that was the only one I gave 5 stars, so it wins. Technically, off the record I read the contributed stories for the Being Aro anthology that will come out next year (for which I wrote the introduction).

27. What was your greatest musical discovery?

EPIC the Musical for SURE. However, it was kind of a big year for me when it comes to music, and that's unusual! I really loved the soundtrack to KPop Demon Hunters (I linked "Golden" above, but "Your Idol" is also PHENOMENAL). Rebecca Sugar released her second personal album, Lonely Magic, which I bought on vinyl and in digital. And both Suzanne Vega and Dar Williams released new music, which I bought and listened to! Suzanne's new album Flying With Angels was released on May 2 and Dar's new album Hummingbird Highway was released on September 12. They're both great!

28. What did you want and get?

Voice acting roles, a short story sale, a Covid-free year, Steven Universe spinoff news, a lot of quality time with friends and family, good coffee, good health, a happy home, love and humor, good entertainment.

29. What did you want and not get?

Another literary agent and a book deal, a resolution for my job situation, answers for my weird health questions.

30. What was your favorite film of this year?

The only films I saw were Wicked: For Good, KPop Demon Hunters, the new Superman, Pitch Perfect and Pitch Perfect 2, and if The Elephant counts (I don't know if it's a TV show or a movie). I can't lie: the one that had the most impact on me was KPop Demon Hunters even though I was really excited for Wicked also. I had never seen the Pitch Perfect movies and Jeaux showed them to me. They were such fun. And I LOOOOVED The Elephant.

31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

I turned 47. I got up early and played DDR in the morning after coffee! Got dressed for the day and did some reports at work. Meg rolled in to visit me in the afternoon and we chilled together, then went out to eat at Carrabba's with my dad and Connie for my birthday. When we got back I finished my reports for the office, took an unsatisfying nap, and hung out with Meghan for the rest of the evening. We had cake together (baked by Jeaux).

32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Fewer petty arguments, fewer people making promises they can't keep, fewer frigging creepy dudes creepin', and obviously, like, a book deal. Yes, I realize the question asked me for "one thing," but I do what I want.

33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2025?

On hot days, the tank tops and jeans got me through. On cold days, I love my cozy sweaters and my wearable blankets. I own over 130 Steven Universe shirts and they got a lot of use.

34. What kept you sane?

Video chats with friends and sister, medical advice from Meg and Kari, music that hyped me up when I needed it and calmed me down when I needed it, coffee, dependable documentation, hopeful and determined leftist political commentary, and important art that reminds us why we persist.

35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?

Oh, you silly survey.

36. What political issue stirred you the most?

Trans rights, mistreatment of immigrants, and all the frigging liars in government.

37. Who did you miss?

I missed my mom more than I thought I would. More than last year.

38. Who was the best new person you met?

Lynnie and Kirb, the silliest kids I met initially through one of my voice roles from Discord. I adore them. New people were few and far between this year so I will also say Zak was a really cool new attendee at one of my parties and I hope I get to know him more.

39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2025.

I'm not too old to try entirely new things and do well!

40. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:

"I just want art and music and you."

Monday, December 29, 2025

Personal Digest Saturday (but posted on Monday!): December 20 – December 26

Life news this week:

  • Saturday I kinda dragged my feet getting anything done. It was my nephew's twelfth birthday and I still didn't have all the stuff I needed to send their holiday package, so I sent him a photo of his presents wrapped and he laughed. Then their power went out and stayed out (the big San Francisco blackout!) so it was kinda a crappy birthday for him. I updated some stuff on Negative One's pages and got mad at my loud, inconsiderate neighbors for singing amplified karaoke outside for hours and throwing tons of trash over the fence into my yard. Ughhh. I finally started making cookies for my holiday stuff, starting with a batch of cardamom cookies that Meghan asked for for her holiday gift. (I put them in the freezer.) Kari came over to distract me and we took a nice walk. After she left I did my blogging and worked on my book.

  • Sunday I got some laundry started in the morning and threw the neighbors' trash back over their fence. Took out my own trash, sent a Polo to Meg, and lit candles for the last day of Hanukkah. Made some spritz cookies (and got mad that one of my cookie presses got jammed, so I switched to the other one; I fixed it later). So many cookies! I organized another band name poll and made a to-do list for holiday stuff. Submitted a short story. Did some aerobics. Talked to a Tumblr user about Steven Universe merch. Did some voice-over auditions.

  • Monday I had to edit a letter, bother people about utilities, and invite teaming partners. Then after work I put away laundry, drew all of Negative One (early, because I was gonna be preparing for having people over Saturday), and made four-way drop cookies--a cookie type that has the same base recipe but different mix-ins (M&Ms, sprinkles, jimmies, and Kisses). I also made my dough for pinwheel cookies (they had to refrigerate) and made meringues with leftover egg whites. Then I washed all the dishes, cleaned the back room of my house, and edited a chapter of my book. Also found out I got on the shortlist of not one but two voice-over projects.

  • Tuesday I worked but there was an access outage for part of the shift so I used the time to prepare presents for my sister's package. I had been hoping the final item would get delivered to me in time for me to walk the package to the post office but it didn't come in time. (It did arrive after 5 that day.) I cleaned the bathrooms in my house, removed wax from my menorah for next year, did some aerobics, and sliced and baked my pinwheel cookies from the previously made dough. Unfortunately, then my air conditioner stopped working. Ugh, just in time to go into holiday mode when no one will be available to fix it. Jeaux came over (a day earlier than usual) and took me to Moe's for dinner and then grocery shopping. When we got home he rebuilt my DDR pad with new panels that were my holiday present! It took a while. Then we watched The Elephant (really cool new animation project) and hung out. And I worked on my book.

  • Wednesday I was off for Christmas Eve. I relaxed in the morning, then tackled a project I've been meaning to tackle all year: I sanded a decorative pillar I adopted from my mom's house, cleaned it, and painted it. Then left it outside to dry. Then I wrapped presents in between watching episodes of the second season of Fionna and Cake. Then I cleaned the living room and vacuumed. I made cardamom cookies and worked on my party playlist. I stayed up way too late.

  • Thursday I was off for Christmas Day. I brought my painted pillar in and rearranged plants in my house to decide what would be on it. Sent a Polo to my sister and then listened to a friend's Christmas carol compilation (which I guest-sang on a few songs!). I listened while cleaning the office. Then I caught a lizard in the air conditioning vent while replacing the filter. Haha. I was nervous about whether someone was going to respond to the air conditioning maintenance request I'd sent, hoping someone would come out to help the next day because I needed to have the air working or everyone was going to come to my place on Saturday and be hot. I called the emergency maintenance line (which is new!) and they actually answered! They said they would get the work order entered and then I got a bunch of weird e-mails responding to the wrong maintenance requests before I finally got one that made sense assigning a vendor. So after dealing with that I did some laundry, did some weight lifting, and made snowball cookies. I also submitted a short story and a query and worked on my comic.

  • Friday I had to work. I did reports and processed some timesheet stuff. Then I went on a quest to get my air conditioning fixed because my property management was ignoring me and at this point I'd been without A/C for four days (yes, it is still hot here). I didn't want to face having family and friends over in a hot box with the oven on from cooking our holiday lunch, man. I ended up trying to negotiate with the A/C company and they wouldn't let me hire them directly without the property manager's permission, so I ended up calling my house's homeowner for the very first time. She is the sweetest person and she called the A/C company and bypassed everything and a tech came out and fixed it (temporarily; a part will need to be replaced). Score! Finally I processed Negative One and posted it, sent a Polo to Meg, and made waffle cookies. Jeaux came over with some groceries I needed and brought the table into the living room for me for our lunch. Yay! After he left I set the table with fancy dishes. And I made a breakfast casserole that needs to chill overnight. Then I planned the time schedule for the next day, bought stuff on eBay, did karaoke, and went to bed. I'm glad to say that ALL WEEK my ear behaved fine.
Interviews, Articles, Mentions:

My friend Kirb asked me to sing on a few holiday songs with him and it was adorable and hilarious. He has a whole Christmas album that's like an hour long, and it's mostly him and others singing, but here are codes to jump to the specific songs that I sang with him on:


Health Plan Update:

  • Weight stuff: The scale and I were not acquainted (again) this week. No data!

  • Nutrition stuff: I only missed my protein goal one day this week! Improvement. Unfortunately, in the next week or so we will probably see that drop off again 'cause I'm eating up leftovers from gatherings. Still taking vitamins, including the new B vitamins.

  • Activity stuff: I'm continuing to do aerobics or DDR every other day. I made my 10,000-step walking goal every day this week. My low day was Saturday at 10,010 steps, and my high day was Thursday at 14,401 steps.
Books Read: 

  • Finished Reading: Nothing this week.

  • Currently Reading: Invisible Monsters by Chuck Palahniuk. I'm on page 95.
    New singing performances:

    This week's karaoke song is "Time For Me to Fly" by REO Speedwagon


    Stuff drawn:

     

    My weekly fantasy webcomic, Negative One#1076: ivy #350: when the answer's always no.


    Videos Made: 

    None.

    New photos:

    Hanukkah candles!



    Spritz Cookies


    Jeaux played a game that was hidden as an Easter Egg in The Elephant


    Cardamom cookies


    Waffle cookies

    Breakfast casserole


    Social media counts:

    YouTube subscribers: 5,436 for swankivy (no change), 678 for JulieSondra (no change), 16 for v & V Vids (no change), 215 for Not-So-Giant Women (no change), 66 for Tides of Time Band (no change). Twitter followers: 753 for swankivy (no change), 3,428 for JulieSondra (lost 7). Facebook: 291 friends for swankivy (no change), 629 likes for JulieSondra (lost 1), 80 followers for Negative One (no change), 246 followers for So You Write (no change), 103 followers for Not-So-Giant-Women (no change). Tumblr followers: 2,416 (lost 2). Instagram followers: 294 (lost 1). Threads followers: 81 (no change). Bluesky Social. Bluesky followers: 431 (3 new).


    Saturday, December 20, 2025

    Personal Digest Saturday: December 13 – December 19

    Life news this week:

    • Saturday I started out with a pretty bad ear day but the symptoms had almost disappeared by nighttime. When I got up I was lazy for a while because I was cold. Then I did aerobics and got warmed up. I put up holiday decorations and tried to listen to a reaction video but the reactor kept talking in circles so I had to stop watching her. Then I organized some music playlists, updated my music binder, vacuummed the house, and worked on my blog. Finally I did some more work on my book and playlists.

    • Sunday I was up later than I wanted to be but it was fine. I had time for breakfast and coffee before Jeaux picked me up to go eat at Vallarta's and then we went shopping. Meg is trying to sell her house and got her first walk-through scheduled. Very cool. I bought a few holiday presents online and did my chores. Lit my Hanukkah candles for Day 1! Happily, my ear behaved all day.

    • Monday was eventful at work. I had to read a letter, set up another research proposal, do timesheets, invite team members, and deal with utilities. After work I did DDR and ate a bunch of Cheerios. Put up a band names poll for our members. Watched some videos that had been converted for my dad. Planned some recipes and worked on my book. My ear behaved again!

    • Tuesday was a weird day. Some was normal--I went to work and wrangled teaming information, and I replanted some plants. The very good stuff was that Meg got an offer on her house and accepted it! And I worked on my book some more. But the bad thing was that my sister's dog Yoshi passed away after a diagnostic procedure--not expected at all and very sad! Awful. At least I can say my ear was also very well behaved.

    • Wednesday I went to work but was distracted. I did some analysis of crash data and some cleanup. I did some dishes, had a pest control visit, played DDR, puta way laundry, and prepared Christmas recipes. Jeaux came over and we ate at Grain and Berry, then went shopping and watched silly videos like usual. I got to hear a preview of the third episode of an audio story show I'm in--I finally make my entrance in that one, and I get to sing. :) My ear did a weird rumbly thing for long enough that I got irritated, but then it went away and I was fine the rest of the night.

    • Thursday I had to rearrange some data and go to a meeting at work. I talked to my sister on the phone for a while, mostly about what happened with her pup but some catching up and chatting about health and other things too. After that I wrote my comic, updated Christmas recipes, did some voice-over auditions, sent in a query, and did some Polos. Went to game night. Then listened to the next episode of the detective show I'm in. Episode 2 is out! My ear was well behaved again all day.

    • Friday at work involved reports and timesheets. I had to delete programs to free space on my computer. I did some food updates for Christmas and some more drawing for my comic, then got the comic posted before jumping into exercise. My DDR pad was misbehaving so I did aerobics instead. Went to bed early because of weird tiredness. And still no problems with my ear again.
    Health Plan Update:

    • Weight stuff: The scale and I were not acquainted (again) this week. No data!

    • Nutrition stuff: I met the protein goal 3 out of 7 days. Dang. What's up with that? I'm still taking my vitamins, including the new B vitamins.

    • Activity stuff: I'm continuing to do aerobics or DDR every other day. I made my 10,000-step walking goal every day this week. My low day was Saturday at 10,185 steps, and my high day was Tuesday at 16,793 steps.
    Books Read: 

    • Finished Reading: Nothing this week.

    • Currently Reading: Invisible Monsters by Chuck Palahniuk. I'm on page 95.
      New singing performances:

      This week's karaoke song is "Dear Jessie" by Madonna


      Stuff drawn:

       

      My weekly fantasy webcomic, Negative One#1075: ivy #349: the next problem.


      Videos Made: 

      None.

      New photos:


      Hanukkah Day 1!


      Social media counts:

      YouTube subscribers: 5,436 for swankivy (1 new), 678 for JulieSondra (no change), 16 for v & V Vids (no change), 215 for Not-So-Giant Women (no change), 66 for Tides of Time Band (no change). Twitter followers: 753 for swankivy (lost 3), 3,435 for JulieSondra (lost 4). Facebook: 291 friends for swankivy (no change), 630 likes for JulieSondra (lost 4), 80 followers for Negative One (no change), 246 followers for So You Write (no change), 103 followers for Not-So-Giant-Women (no change). Tumblr followers: 2,418 (no change). Instagram followers: 295 (no change). Threads followers: 81 (no change). Bluesky Social. Bluesky followers: 428 (1 new).


      Saturday, December 13, 2025

      Personal Digest Saturday: December 6 – December 12

      Life news this week:

      • Saturday I got up late but still made it to the post office before it closed at noon (before coffee!) to drop off another one of Meg's eBay sales. Spent the day working on my blog, cleaning up in the house, and listening to an EPIC reaction while playing games. Then I took a Lyft car to my dad's holiday party and enjoyed the wonderful food and lovely company. My dad had arranged a karaoke service for the event so I sang a couple times and got a small fan club. Managed to eat a LITTLE dessert before heading home. Then I did some voice recordings--one was pickups for a voice acting role, and the other was some Christmas songs I'm singing with a friend. Unfortunately, after a long hiatus, my ear symptoms came back on Saturday night. I like to track the severity of the issue just to have an idea, so let's say it was a 3 in the AM and a 10 in the PM.

      • Sunday I relaxed with a game and listening to an analysis on YouTube. Then I evaluated some recordings of band songs and sent feedback to the group. Straightened up the house, played DDR, and did my chores (trash and laundry). Kari stopped by with pizza and was sympathetic about my ear problem. She gave me some pointers. After she left I did some exercises and stretches she recommended. (Sometimes weird ear symptoms are connected to muscle tightness or other connected tissue. But it did not help.) Worked on my book editing. Ear stuff was a 7 in the AM, 10 in the PM.

      • Monday I went back to work. Went to a meeting about a proposal and did some accounting data entry. Walked a package to the Post Office. Talked to Meg on Polo. Did some holiday shopping. Worked very hard on editing my book and got a lot chopped. Recorded some new auditions for voice acting. Ear status: 8 in the AM, 10 in the PM.

      • Tuesday I did some proposal editing at work, then organized some teaming requests. Played DDR and my feet were unhappy. Later I did some Polos for my sister. Worked on my book. Texted with my sister about holiday presents and Steven Universe merch. I did more of those exercises. Ear stuff was 9 in the AM, 5 in the PM.

      • Wednesday I finalized teams at work and did some data entry on my inventory contract. Did a bunch of household chores (putting away laundry, dishes, etc.). Did some more holiday shopping. Jeaux came early. We bought some plants at Lowe's, ate at Saki to celebrate him getting an A in his chemistry class, and did our grocery shopping. We shared annoying online stories with each other and watched two more anime episodes (Secrets of the Silent Witch). After he left I talked to my online friend and submitted a new query. Ear stuff was a 4 in the AM, 7 in the PM.

      • Thursday I did data entry for the inventory contract and worked on a proposal all day. Did a Polo for Meg. Cold day! I did some aerobics, wrote my comic, and went to game night to play with pals. Did some drawing and actually finished all the comic images before bed. Submitted a short story. Ear stuff was an 8 in the AM, 2 in the PM.

      • Friday I started the day with a meeting, then worked on timesheets, finalizing a proposal, and the inventory data entry. After work I did a Polo for Meg, did some reading, did a karaoke song, did more holiday shopping, recorded the last couple Christmas songs for my friend, and was cold again for most of the day. Ear stuff was a 3 in the AM, 9 in the PM.
      Health Plan Update:

      • Weight stuff: The scale and I were not acquainted this week. No data!

      • Nutrition stuff: I managed to meet the protein goal 4 out of 7 days (missed it on both the days I had outside-the-home meals), and the remaining day I only missed it by a little. I did this weird thing a couple days where I fell asleep before eating my final fruit servings, too. And I'm still taking my vitamins. I have added B vitamins starting Wednesday on Meghan's suggestion just in case that's causing any issues with my ear.

      • Activity stuff: I'm continuing to do aerobics or DDR every other day. I made my 10,000-step walking goal every day this week. My low day was Friday at 10,058 steps, and my high day was Tuesday at 16,680 steps.
      Books Read: 

      • Finished Reading: Nothing this week.

      • Currently Reading: Invisible Monsters by Chuck Palahniuk. I'm on page 95.
        New singing performances:

        This week's karaoke song is "Listen to the Music" by the Doobie Brothers


        Stuff drawn:

         

        My weekly fantasy webcomic, Negative One#1074: ivy #348: if i qualify.


        Videos Made: 

        None.

        New photos:

        Dad sings a song for Connie at the holiday party

        On a cold night, I got cozy with some popcorn


        Social media counts:

        YouTube subscribers: 5,435 for swankivy (1 new), 678 for JulieSondra (1 new), 16 for v & V Vids (no change), 215 for Not-So-Giant Women (no change), 66 for Tides of Time Band (no change). Twitter followers: 756 for swankivy (no change), 3,439 for JulieSondra (lost 4). Facebook: 291 friends for swankivy (no change), 630 likes for JulieSondra (2 new), 80 followers for Negative One (no change), 246 followers for So You Write (no change), 103 followers for Not-So-Giant-Women (no change). Tumblr followers: 2,418 (no change). Instagram followers: 295 (no change). Threads followers: 81 (no change). Bluesky Social. Bluesky followers: 427 (8 new).


        Saturday, December 6, 2025

        Personal Digest Saturday: November 29 – December 5

        Life news this week:

        • Saturday I got up kinda late and worked on various projects, including blogging, learning new songs, and filming a video. I processed the video and posted it, worked on my So You Write script, and played DDR. Then worked on the comics and the photo log. Sent a Polo to my sister. Practiced music, sketched out my comic, and submitted a short story. Packed for Sarasota and practiced music more. Had a really bad day with my foot sadly.

        • Sunday I got up later than I meant to, which left me not much time to finish breakfast and I had to bring my coffee with me to go to band practice. Dad and I made a practice list which made the practice go much more smoothly so we didn't have to dither about what song to do next. We'll do that in the future too. We had a really good practice and almost all our songs were prepared. Dad and I ate at Ford's and when I got home I did laundry and took out trash. I found out my friend Michael, whom I affectionately called Pirate Mike, has passed away, so that derailed the rest of my night. Kari came over to distract-slash-comfort me, which was very nice of her. Finally then I finished So You Write and posted it. I didn't bother to try concentrating on anything else.

        • Monday I filed some stuff at work and sent reminders to people. Walked to the post office, did a Polo, did some aerobics, napped, did dishes, and read old journals. Did another Polo for my sister and did more laundry. Got the 2002 photo log done. Posted my goals update on my blogs.

        • Tuesday I had some proposal meetings and project meetings. I also did some research. Then I did some dish washing, listened to a new episode of a show I'm in that released (but I'm not in the episode), and chatted with one of my friends who wants to do some Christmas duets on his YouTube. Cute! Did some reading. Put away laundry, did some Polos, and got annoyed because I got minor rumbles from my ear and I thought that whole thing was over with, but I guess there are some residual things going on. Hopefully it will not have a resurgence to what it was last month.

        • Wednesday I got to do some editing on a letter and went to a meeting. Did some DDR and sent in a query. Went out with Jeaux and ate at Mandola's, grocery shopped, and showed each other silly stuff. Jeaux helped repair my DDR pad again when one of the buttons was working unpredictably.

        • Thursday I went to the post office early. Later I edited a proposal and we submitted it after a meeting. I sent some Polos and wrote my comic and played silly games. Went to game night with pals, and my friend Kari brought my brownies. Then I drew the comic, submitted a short story, and got too tired to do anything else.

        • Friday I did my usual reports at work. After, I did the rest of my drawings in between listening to news and music. Talked about Steven Universe merchandise with an online contact. Posted my comic, played DDR, and sent a Polo to Steve.
        New Reviews:
        • Jia Yi gave The Invisible Orientation a one-star review on Goodreads (in French). (Based on the translation, it seems the reader believed some sensitive discussions I included comparing aromantic and heterosexual experience were absurd because "aromantic and heterosexual people have NOTHING in common"--and that it was transphobic of me to include the term "transromantic," which was coined by trans people for trans people's use to express that they're only interested in other trans people.)

        Health Plan Update:

        • Weight stuff: I again only got on the scale a couple times this week so I have incomplete data. High number was 118.7 pounds and low number was 118.0.

        • Nutrition stuff: I only met my protein goals 2 days out of 7--I guess it's partly because of having desserts in my house. I did still get all my fruits and veggies too. And I'm still taking my vitamins.

        • Activity stuff: I'm continuing to do aerobics or DDR every other day. I made my 10,000-step walking goal every day this week. My low day was Tuesday at 10,222 steps, and my high day was Wednesday at 16,278 steps.
        Books Read: 

        • Finished Reading: Nothing this week.

        • Currently Reading: Invisible Monsters by Chuck Palahniuk. I'm on page 76.
          New singing performances:

          This week's karaoke song is "My Own Worst Enemy" by Lit


          Stuff drawn:

           

          My monthly writing webcomic, So You Write#173: not about me.



           

          My weekly fantasy webcomic, Negative One#1073: ivy #347: a real talent.


          Videos Made: 

          Letters to an Asexual #131 ("I'll change you!") is out. In this video, an anonymous contributor shares an anecdote about a drunk friend threatening to "seduce" them because they don't believe asexuality is real. I respond.


          New photos:

          None.

          Social media counts:

          YouTube subscribers: 5,434 for swankivy (lost 4), 677 for JulieSondra (no change), 16 for v & V Vids (no change), 215 for Not-So-Giant Women (no change), 66 for Tides of Time Band (no change). Twitter followers: 756 for swankivy (lost 1), 3,443 for JulieSondra (lost 3). Facebook: 291 friends for swankivy (no change), 628 likes for JulieSondra (no change), 80 followers for Negative One (no change), 246 followers for So You Write (lost 1), 103 followers for Not-So-Giant-Women (no change). Tumblr followers: 2,418 (no change). Instagram followers: 295 (no change). Threads followers: 81 (no change). Bluesky Social. Bluesky followers: 419 (2 new).


          Monday, December 1, 2025

          November Goals Update

          Hey, hey, there, December. I guess I gotta tell the world how November went as far as my goals.

          1. Health Goals: I resolved to continue drinking an appropriate amount of water (around 4 glasses a day), eat 3 servings of fruits and veggies a day and keep my nutrition balanced, and walk at least 10,000 steps a day plus add in an aerobic activity every other day.

          2. Personal Project Goals: I resolved to keep working on getting photos sorted as the first stop on a website rebuild; resolved to work on writing three days a week and submissions when I can; resolved to relearn ukulele songs I've forgotten and learn new ones, keep creating my regular webcomic and video content, and get some small voice acting gigs.

          3. Reading Goals: I resolved to read at least twice a week.

          4. Relationship and Communication Goals: I resolved to document daily life stuff more, keep up with e-mails and online communication, and make time for friends and family.

          5. Other Goals: Get rid of some things in my garage, paint the pillar, keep the house clean, watch some backed up TV shows, and avoid biting my nails.

          Progress Update:

          HEALTH GOALS:

          Summary: I didn't have specific weight goals and have mostly not visited the scale, but this month I got back on it a few times just to see where I am, and ya know. It'd be nice if that number was something else. I'm also not overly concerned about it. I'm still hitting the three-fruits-and-veggies-a-day goal most days, but still kinda struggling with the protein goals a lot. I may need to investigate some additional sources that I like eating. Water goals have been okay this month, though I missed my four-glass goal a few times, and I've continued with exercise (still mostly aerobics, but I did get in some DDR too) and taking vitamins. Here is my Health calendar of progress:


          (Click these calendars and they will expand so you can actually read them!)




          PERSONAL PROJECT GOALS:

          Summary:

          EDITING: The book has completed its second edit. It's at 140,000 words and change. I built an outline as I read and have now spent a couple days digging through it from a bird's-eye view, and have identified a few things to cut, a few things to summarize/fold into other chapters, and quite a few things to shorten. Third edit proper will start soon.

          SUBMISSIONS:
          No new news about agents or short story sales; if I don't have another sale in December, I'll be at only one sale this year, which is kinda sucky. I did also enjoy the cover reveal that came out last month for the book I wrote an introduction to.

          Writing Progress:


          PHOTO PROJECT: I buckled down and got a ton done on the photo project, but I'm still not done. I have completed back to 2002, with the help of journals (which is why it takes so long), but the journals end at the beginning of the year 2000, so after that it will be a lot of guesswork. Hopefully I can get this done before the end of the year.

          UKULELE PRACTICE: I don't have an active goal with this right now since I met my goal earlier this year learning all the songs I assigned myself. I pick it up and noodle sometimes but I am not really practicing anything.

          VOICE ACTING: Last month's multi-tier audition ended in success: I got the lead role in an upcoming audio thriller. I have completed my recording under a pretty tight deadline and we'll see how it sounds when it comes out. I also landed another role immediately after I got this one (also the lead role!), but I'm not sure if anything will happen because the creator of the project has not contacted me with any instructions. And the first project I recorded lines for at the beginning of this year finally released its first episode. My contribution to two roles is in the first episode. Others are cooking and coming out soon; the second episode of a fantasy show coming out shortly should have my voice in it during one scene, and a couple other shows are coming up on my parts or releasing this month.

          Here's the Projects Calendar:




          READING GOALS: 


          Summary: This has really been my worst goal this year--trying to read twice a week ended up being twice a month this time. I always say something's gotta give, but I do wish I was making time for this more consistently. The issue is that I don't schedule it, so it happens whenever, and sometimes that's never.

          Progress:

          RELATIONSHIP AND COMMUNICATION GOALS: 

          Summary: Besides Jeaux Day and Game Night, my social life included a movie hangout, a Thanksgiving dinner at my dad's, and three band practices! Plus some doctor's appointments and company interviews which aren't social but do have to go on the calendar. I don't owe anyone any e-mails, so that's nice. I haven't improved on the documentation goals I've had. Still just as disappointing.

          Progress:

          OTHER GOALS:

          Summary: My eBay sales are going pretty well and clearing out some junk in my garage. I still need to sand and paint the plaster pillar that is sitting outside and need to sell some garage items. I now have three TV shows I want to watch, with two being in progress. I need to catch up on photographing the updated Steven Universe collection.